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The Final Stretch: Helping Your Child Push Through When Summer’s Calling

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As the school year wraps up, many kids, whether they have final exams, end-of-year tests, or just big projects, are starting to daydream about summer break. That sunshine and freedom can make staying motivated and focused a real challenge.

This edition is packed with practical tips to help your child finish the school year strong, keep up their motivation, and manage stress — all while letting them look forward to summer. Because it’s not just about the last test or grade, it’s about setting habits that lead to success in school and beyond.

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Final Grades & Fading Focus During School’s Last Stretch

As the school year winds down, many students begin to check out — and the numbers reveal just how widespread this “spring slump” really is.

A national report by Learning Heroes found that nearly 70% of students disengage in the final month of school, with motivation dropping most sharply in the last 2–3 weeks.

The reasons are layered.

  • Mental fatigue. Students are worn out from months of academic pressure and extracurricular demands.

  • Summer anticipation. The excitement of upcoming vacations and a looser routine makes current schoolwork feel less important.

  • Cumulative assessments. Final grades often include exams or projects that feel overwhelming, especially to kids who are already tired or anxious. In fact, a 2024 study by the National Center for Education Statistics showed that 60% of middle and high schoolers report feeling “overwhelmed” or “stressed” during end-of-year testing periods.

This combination of stress, distraction, and burnout can lead to incomplete assignments, lower test performance, and diminished self-confidence, right when kids most need a boost heading into summer.

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5 Smart Ways to Help Your Child Finish the School Year Strong

Thankfully, small changes at home can make a big difference in keeping your child focused, encouraged, and motivated during this final stretch.

Here’s how:

1. Break Tasks Into “Wins”
Instead of overwhelming your child with long review sessions, help them break studying into short, focused chunks. After each mini-session, celebrate the win: “You just reviewed five concepts — that’s real progress.”

2. Use the Power of Microbreaks
Research from the American Psychological Association shows that taking short, intentional breaks can improve attention and retention by up to 30%. Try the 30-10-30 rule: 30 minutes of work, 10-minute break, followed by 30 seconds of encouragement.

3. Connect the Countdown to Motivation
Make summer work for you, not against you. Create a summer countdown calendar and let your child “unlock” fun milestones — a movie night, family outing, or special treat — by hitting academic goals along the way.

4. Praise the Effort, Not Just the Outcome
Shifting the focus from grades to grit helps kids stay emotionally balanced. Say, “I’m proud of how you stuck with that assignment,” rather than “I hope you get an A.”

5. Use Smart Tools
Try the Pomofocus Timer (pomofocus.io) to help your child manage work and break time. For younger kids, build a custom Summer Countdown Calendar with printable templates from Canva.com to make progress feel visible and fun.

Under Pressure: What Kids Are Really Stressing About (And How You Can Spot It)

As the school year wraps up, academic pressure, social changes, and uncertainty about what’s next can all trigger stress — even if your child isn’t saying it out loud. In fact, according to the American Psychological Association, over 70% of teens say school is a major source of stress, often as much as or more than adults feel at work.

But stress doesn’t always look like worry. It can show up as irritability, tiredness, or even "not caring" anymore — and the signs differ as kids grow.

What Are Kids Stressing About?

  • Grades & academic pressure: Worrying about final tests, report cards, or disappointing teachers and parents

  • Friendship & social tension: Shifting relationships, drama, or fear of exclusion during summer

  • Transitions: Changing grades, schools, or teachers in the fall

  • Overcommitment: Sports, activities, and expectations stacking up

  • Perfectionism: Wanting to "get it right" — and feeling crushed when they don’t

Signs of Stress by Age Group

Early Elementary (Ages 5–8):

  • Frequent stomachaches or headaches

  • Bedtime resistance or nightmares

  • Clinginess or asking for help with things they’ve mastered

  • Big emotions over small frustrations

Late Elementary to Middle School (Ages 9–13):

  • Irritability or mood swings

  • Avoidance of schoolwork or increased procrastination

  • Changes in appetite or sleep

  • Sudden drop in academic interest or confidence

Teens (Ages 14–18):

  • Withdrawal from family or favorite activities

  • Physical symptoms (like muscle tension, headaches)

  • Increased sensitivity to criticism

  • Overthinking or “shutting down” when overwhelmed

Helping kids name what they’re feeling — and showing empathy instead of pushing performance — is one of the most powerful ways to build resilience.

Simply saying, “I can tell this feels big for you. Want to talk or take a break together?” can help diffuse pressure and open the door to support.

Want to go deeper? Check out the New York Times Bestseller "The Whole-Brain Child" by Dr. Daniel Siegel or KidsHealth.org for more suggestions.

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Last week, we asked: Would you rather your child spend the summer becoming more confident in one subject… or explore lots of new things without worrying about mastery?

Here’s how you voted:

🟩 Explore freely — exposure is more important than depth (7 votes)
🟦 A mix of both, but with light structure (3 votes)
🟨 Build deep confidence in one subject (2 votes)

One thoughtful parent shared:

“I think that childhood is about exploring. And summer is a good time for that. Focusing only on one subject will lead to boredom and the streak won't continue for long. They'll ultimately sit back and do nothing.”

Radhya, Parent in the Raising Humans Crew

With 75% of parents leaning toward exploration or balance, it’s clear that many of you see summer as a chance for creativity, curiosity, and freedom, not just a continuation of school!

We’re asking parents like you to share their thoughts on topics that matter each week! Cast your vote and see what others think! We’ll chat more about the results next week. 👀

What do you care most about when final grades come home?

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1. Pomofocus.io
A free online Pomodoro timer that helps kids break work into short, focused chunks with built-in breaks. Great for studying without burnout.

2. Calm App or Spotify Playlists
These soundscapes and playlists help reduce distractions and ease test anxiety while kids do homework or study.

3. Canva's Printable Countdown Calendar
Use canva.com to design a custom “Countdown to Summer” calendar — your child can decorate it and cross off each day as goals are hit.

4. Khan Academy’s “Get Ready” Courses
These free short courses help kids review key concepts from their current grade and prep for the next at their own pace. Search for "Get ready for 6th grade math" or similar by grade.

With Thinkster’s new Grow plans, you now have a flexible, affordable way to support your child without the stress of homework or rigid schedules. Just 2–3 hours a week of Thinkster this summer can help your child stay sharp, build confidence, and walk into the new school year with a head start.

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Want to learn more about how Thinkster can help your child this summer and boost their learning confidence?

Until Next Week…

We know it’s a busy time for families, and balancing end-of-year demands can be tough. With a little structure and encouragement, your child can finish strong and jump into summer with confidence and excitement.

Thanks for joining us in raising kind, capable, and confident humans. We’re so glad you’re here.

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